The State of Affairs

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From bestselling psychotherapist Esther Perel, author of *Mating in Captivity*, comes a provocative and empathetic exploration of infidelity. Perel delves into why people cheat, the profound pain of betrayal, and whether our romantic expectations set us up for heartbreak. Drawing on a decade of global research and hundreds of real-life case stories, she offers a nuanced psychological and cultural analysis. Perel argues that while affairs are devastating, they can be healed, and even offer profound lessons about modern relationships, commitment, and the potential for renewal. This illuminating book provides insights and practical advice for surviving and thriving after betrayal.

“Perel is a master at what she does.” —*The New Yorker*
“A fresh look at infidelity.” —*Los Angeles Review of Books*